but if you start making these mistakes and she loses interest (and stops replying), then it was all for nothing.The first thing to learn here is how to take your foot “off the brakes” regarding texting. Mistake #1 – Trying to build attraction over text – One of the most important things to remember is that it’s better to build attraction in person when you’re face to face, not over text.It makes sense to heat the pipe up first so it bends easily, right?Well the same thing applies to her emotions and decision making process.You still have to capture her attention and get her out on a date.In the meantime, there’s still that gap between when you first meet her and when you see her next.It’s like some kind of secret language that we’re expect to already know how to speak. an unfair advantage over every other guy she’s talking to.
Let’s start with how to actually learn about texting.Principle #4 – Always be closing – After you meet her, you should be leading the interaction forward toward some kind of relationship (either romantic or just sexual). Keep in mind that you need to get her out on a real date and take the steps toward beginning a relationship and getting physical together.Principle #5 – Master the High-Status Filter – Guys often lose their chances with a woman because they put too much importance (and pressure) on that one girl.Don’t think of texting as a way of exchanging data, think of it as a way of giving her feelings (which she then associates with you).Principle #3 – Metal is easier to bend when it’s red hot – Let’s say you want to bend a metal pipe.